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Top 10 Interview Bloopers...and How to Avoid Them
We’ve all
heard stories of job candidates who looked great on paper but who were absolute
disasters in person. With fewer and fewer interview opportunities available in
this competitive market, it’s essential to make the best possible first
impression. You can learn from the mistakes of others and avoid the top 10
worst interview blunders.
Poor
handshake.
The
three-second handshake that starts the interview is your first opportunity to
create a great impression. But all too often an interview is blown right from
the start by an ineffective handshake. Once you’ve delivered a poor handshake,
it’s nearly impossible to recover your efforts to build rapport. Here are some
examples:
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The Limp
Hand: Gives the impression of disinterest or weakness
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The Tips
of the Fingers : Shows lack of ability to engage.
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The Arm
Pump: Sincerity is questionable, much like an over-agressive salesman.
Even if
you’re a seasoned professional, don’t assume you have avoided these pitfalls.
Your handshake may be telling more about you than you know. Ask for honest
critiques from several friends who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth.
Talking
too much.
In my recruiting days, I abhorred over-talkative candidates. So did most of my
client employers. Over-talking takes several forms
To avoid
either of these forms of over-talking, practice answering questions in a direct
manner. Avoid nervous talking by preparing for your interview with role-play
Saying
negative things about your current or past employers/managers.
The fastest way to talk yourself out of a new job is
to say negative things. Even if your last boss was Attila the Hun, never, never
state your ill feelings about him/her. No matter how reasonable your
complaints, YOU will come out the loser if you show that you disrespect your
boss. When faced with the challenge of talking about former employers, make
sure you are prepared with a positive spin on your experiences.
Showing
up late or too early.
The first
lesson in job-search etiquette is to show up on time for interviews. A lot of
job seekers don’t realize, however, that showing up too early often creates a
poor first impression as well. Arriving more than ten minutes early for an
interview is a dead giveaway that the job seeker has too much time on their
hands, much like the last one picked for the softball team. Don’t diminish your
candidate desirability by appearing desperate. Act as if your time were as
valuable as theirs. Always arrive on time, but never more than ten minutes
early.
Treating
the receptionist rudely.
Since the
first person you meet on an interview is usually a receptionist, this is also
the first impression you’ll make. Don’t mistake low rank for low input. Often,
that receptionist’s job is to usher you into your interview. The receptionist
has the power to pave your way positively or negatively before you even set eyes
on the interviewer.
Asking
about benefits, vacation time or salary.
What if a car
salesman asked to see your credit report before allowing you to test drive the
cars? That would be ridiculous and you’d walk away in disgust. The effect is
about the same when a job seeker asks about benefits or other employee perks
during the first interview. Wait until you’ve won the employer over before
beginning that discussion.
Not
preparing for the interview.
Nothing communicates disinterest like a candidate who
hasn’t bothered to do pre-interview research. On the flip side, the quickest
way to a good impression is to demonstrate your interest with a few well thought
out questions that reflect your knowledge of their organization.
Verbal
ticks.
An ill-at-ease
candidate seldom makes a good impression. The first signs of nervousness are
verbal ticks. We all have them from time to time—umm, like, you know. Ignore
the butterflies in your stomach and put up a front of calm confidence by
avoiding verbal ticks.
One of the
best ways to reduce or eliminate them is through role play. Practice sharing
your best success stories ahead of time, and you’ll feel more relaxed during the
real interview.
Not
enough/too much eye contact
Either
situation can create a negative effect: Avoid eye contact and you’ll seem
shifty or untruthful; offer too much eye contact, and you’ll wear the
interviewer out. If you sometimes have trouble with eye-contact balance, work
this out ahead of time in an interview practice session with a friend.
Failure
to match communication styles.
It’s almost
impossible to make a good first impression if you can’t communicate effectively
with an interviewer. But you can easily change that situation by mirroring the
way the interviewer treats you. For instance
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If the
interviewer seems all business, don’t attempt to loosen him/her up with a joke
or story. Be succinct and businesslike
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If the
interviewer is personable, try discussing his/her interests. Often the items
on display in the office can be a clue.
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If asked
a direct question, answer directly. Then follow up by asking if more
information is needed.
When you
allow the interviewer to set the tone of conversation, this can vastly improve
your chances of making a favorable impression. You can put the interviewer at
ease—and make yourself seem more like them—by mirroring their communication
style.
Just as a
strong resume wins you an opportunity to interview, strong interview skills will
win you consideration for the job. You already know that you won’t earn an
interview unless your resume sets you apart as a candidate of choice. Likewise,
you should know that polishing your interview skills can mean the difference
between getting the job offer—and being a runner-up.
Start your
job search with a resume that creates a stellar first impression, then back
those facts up with your extraordinary interview skills. You will have made
yourself a better candidate by avoiding these ten interview pitfalls. And no
one will have to talk about you as the candidate who “almost” got the job.
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Deborah Walker, CCMC
Resume Writer ~ Career Coach
888-828-0814 or
Deb@AlphaAdvantage.com
www.AlphaAdvantage.com
Call
for FREE resume critique
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